As I have mentioned many times, my friends Brett and Lauren were getting married this past week. It was arranged that I would go up at the beginning of the week to help with the final wedding details before friday, so on Tuesday my dad gave me a ride to Oshawa where I met Brett at his work. He would be finishing for the day when I arrived, and then I would travel the rest of the way with him.
But we didn't go straight to the house, as Brett had some local errands to run. We stopped at Michaels to pick up some supplies, such as glass for a picture frame Lauren accidentally broke the night prior, popsicle sticks for Brett to build a mini-bridge (an inside joke Brett has with Laur's Dad), and some other things. We also stopped to pick up Brett's tuxedo:

Lauren was out with her parents when we got back to the house, so Brett made us dinner -a yummy pasta that had just a touch too much spices- and we watched TV until Laur got back a couple hours after. The three of us started working on folding napkins and putting them in the napkin rings with little tags tied to them saying "Thank You! B&L". I wrote those while the other two tied and folded... at least until the DJ called and both of them had to talk to him. I finished up the napkins before they even got off the phone, and there were about 75 of them.
On Wednesday was our dress fitting, but first Lauren and I picked up her wedding dress. We were shown how to bustle it up, and told how to pack and store it until the big day. The dress was stunning and I could hardly wait to see Laur in it! After picking up the dress we went to Jenn's house where her mum would be doing the fittings for our bridesmaid dresses. Only Ashlea (the thirteen year old) and her grandmother Sharon were there when we arrived, though Laur's mum and gramma arrived a little later just to be part of it.

Lauren wanted to wait until Ashley and Jenn showed up before leaving, so she had her mum take me back to the house. Lauren did this because she didn't think she would have time to take me back before going to a job interview she had been called about on Tuesday. I spent the afternoon working on my editing until it was time to go to Lauren's parents' house to work on the flower arrangements and the bouquets, etc. The previous plan was to do those at 5pm and then Laur and I were going to see Magic Mike, but the job interview caused everything to be rearranged. The unfortunate part was that the flowers took us until 11pm and Laur and I never ended up going to the movies, not even a late show.

The hardest part was dealing with the dried baby's breath that had be covered with silver glitter. Those sparkles goT EVERYWHERE! There wasn't one person or thing in that room that did not get covered with the bits of glitter. It was in hair, on faces, stuck to hands and feet, plastering clothes, and covering the floor. Needless to say there were a lot of Peter Pan and Twilight jokes.
On Thursday Lauren was going with her mother to the gym and then to get their nails done. I saw Lauren for maybe five minutes that morning when she let Brett's mum in as she was about to leave. I wanted to go back to sleep because it was so early, but Brett's mum isn't the most quiet woman in the world. I ended up getting up for the day, having a shower and eating breakfast on the porch with Luna as I did the day prior. Brett's mum apparently hadn't slept all night and was unable to sleep, so Brett and I left her watching TV as he and I went grocery shopping and did some other errands.

When we got back we put away the groceries and started cleaning the house to get it ready for the night's rehearsal dinner. Lauren was supposed to have come back after lunch, but ended up staying at her parents' instead and met us at the Hall where the wedding was being held. Brett and I stopped to pick up Ashlea and then went to decorate the reception room and to do a rehearsal with the officiant in the back garden.

After doing a run-through (short one groomsman), we went back to the house. Brett and I arrived first, and finished any last minute cleaning that his mum "forgot" to do -aka she slept the whole time- and then the other's started to arrive shortly thereafter. It was a lot of fun with confetti fights, party horns, firecrackers, and a huge BBQ. Everyone was given their bridesmaid or groomsman prezzies then, too. I was asked to hide away in another room and put the groomsmen gifts together because Lauren hadn't been around to do them yet. The boys got half-yard booze glasses, while us girls got a gorgeous clutch purse with a pearl necklace, bracelet, and earrings.

Everyone left by 11pm, including the groom who was going to stay at his brother's place. It was the first time that I got to spend so much as an hour with Lauren without us rushing all over the place trying to get things done... well, during that time we discussed plans for the next day and packed out bags -her for things she needed the next day, and i had to pack all my things because I wouldn't be returning to the house after the ceremony. Nevertheless, we got a bit of girl time in.
We went to bed about midnight, so technically it was already Friday, and I was woken up around 3am for some unknown reason. I heard whispering, and thought Brett had snuck back to spend the night. Luna, the chocolate lab, decided around that time to join me on the couch (I decided not to deal with the evil futon in the spare room) and she's a bit of a bed hog. I took some gravel to get back to sleep, stuck in some earplugs, found a compromise with the dog, and didn't wake until just after 7am. I swear to you that I saw Brett wandering around, feeding Luna and taking a quick shower, but Lauren maintains that he was not there because it's bad luck to see the bride before the wedding. I decided I wasn't going to let that possible lie ruin my day, and figure at some point Laur will say to me, "remember when...? Well, he really was there."

Lauren and I got ready to go to the hairdresser, and were on our way with goodies. We took Luna with us because we were dropping the dog off at Laur's parents, and picking up her mum to come for hair and make-up. We stopped at a grocery store to pick up a fruit tray and veggie tray, as well as to get cash back rather than finding two different banks so that we might pay the ladies who apparently only take cash and not debit. While we were in the store, Luna got into the munchies and ate most of the banana chocolate chip loaf, the naomi bars, and a couple pieces of raspberry cake. There was slobbery food everywhere and icing all over the dog, but the worry was about how much chocolate she ingested.
I spent a lot of time waiting around as there were only two hairdressers, one make-up lady, and seven of us getting stuff done. Well, six until Brett's mum finally showed up a couple hours later. I ended up having my face done first my hair done last which was the worst possibly thing: We ordered in pizza to go with our munchies which meant all my lip gunk was gone before I even left the hairdressers, and my hair didn't have time to set which I needed because my locks don't take well to curls and need the extra time!

Because I was last, the other girls left for Jenn's while Jenn waiting around for me to be finished which wasn't long because I was rushed out of there pretty quick. My hair was already started to fall out by the time we got back to Jenn's place to get dressed! The plan was for us girls to get ready and then help Lauren get into her dress, but Jenn and Ashley took over and said I wasn't needed. I really wanted to help Laur get ready, but I did at least get to help Lauren on with her necklace and carry her train to the car when we were leaving. All the other girls had been in a limo at least a couple times before -even the kid!- but I thought it was pretty exciting and took a lot of photos in the car. I didn't get to take any of the car itself because I was busy dealing with Laur's dress.

Lauren had inadvertently picked the hottest day of summer to have her outdoor wedding so everyone was boiling! The ladies and I at least got to wait inside the air conditioned building until it was time to start, but the guests and groomsmen were outside for a half hour prior. I had to go first down the aisle -scary!- and had a little trouble walking on the cobbled stones in my heels, but made it. We were told to walk slowly, but the other girls were trucking it down the aisle after me. The ceremony was lovely even though I could only see the bride's back and the groom's hat.
Afterwards we all went back in where the new Mr & Mrs did a receiving line, and us bridal party waited around for the photos to start. The pictures took forever but thankfully one nice catering person brought out a couple platters of food and a trolly of water was left for us. Once the photos were finished we had to wait in the foyer for the champaign to finish being served so we could make a promenade into the reception room. We were told to do something cute in the middle of the dance floor before going back to our spots, so I did a little twirl with Shaun. Ashlea didn't do anything and ducked to her spot as soon as possible though Mike did a pose, Brent and Jenn didn't do anything, and Chris bowed while Ashley did nothing either. Brett and Lauren came in and did the exact same thing Shaun and I did *whoops* And note to self, have the groomsmen help seat their bridesmaid because it can lead to awkward situations otherwise.

We were served salad, then pasta, then our main course, then some sort of dessert -only the pasta was any good. During each course, halfway through people eating, various people were called up to make a speech. It was a great way to do it because no one went hungry which meant people were actually able to focus on the words and not how hungry they are. Laur's Dad was first and mentioned everyone in the bridal party, even mentioning how it was because of me the pair met and fell in love. He was absolutely hilarious, and everyone just adores him! Then came Chris, followed by Ashley, and finally the bride and groom themselves. The funny thing is that Laur said it was love at first sight when that night she told me "I'm not sure I like him".
The cutting of the cake was next, then the dancing started. The dj started with an oldies song, so I dragged Ashlea out with me and was teaching her how to swing dance. People started coming out onto the floor after that, so it is a good thing that I am always willing to get the dancing started! *L0L* I must have danced nearly every fast song, and a lot of them were oldies or ones with set dance moves (ie Time Warp, Macarina, Electric Slide, etc). My date was Buttercup, but he's not much of a dancer so he mostly talked to other people he met through the course of the evening, while I danced with anyone and everyone on the dance floor. Sadly, whenever a slow song came on he was already outside having a smoke. That is the unfortunately thing about asking a guy who smokes to be your date, not only does he smell a bit icky but he misses a lot of danceable songs!

Later the bouquet was tossed -Lauren aimed it at Ashley- as well as the garter (which Steve or Graham caught). I also ended up talking to a lot of the boys from the guys' house were invited and I hadn't seen in years. It was nice catching up with them, Steve, Graham, Gord, Wilkie, Shaun and Rebecca (Gord's wife Jaime didn't come because their daughter was sick, so he brought Wilkie as his "date"). Apparently at some point one of the boys wanted to ask me a question, and so they planned to wait until one of them was drunk enough to do so. I don't know why they wanted to know something so personal, but I just said "Of course not, I'm not married yet".
Because Buttercup had worked the night prior and only got four hours sleep before coming to Oshawa, we ended up leaving at 1130pm though the place was open until about 2am. I was fairly okay with that since my feet were killing me from being on them all day and usually in three inch heels, I was pretty tired from being up early, and I'd rather him not be tired when driving us home. We were just about to leave when Ashlea came tearing out after me to say I forgot my bouquet and vase, so we gathered those up and then I left after giving goodbye hugs to everyone.

All in all, it was a pretty fun time and a great experience. I can hardly believe that it is all over now and that Brett and Laur are finally married. It seems like it was all just a bit of a dream, but the happy couple are by now getting ready to leave for some tropical island for a week. I am so unbelievably happy for them!!!

SUMR
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