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  • Stash & Bash

    CHRISTMAS EVE:

    I didn't have to work today because only the gallery was open, therefore Cassie took the half-day shift. I spent the morning dealing with wrapping prezzies and such, before getting ready for the church services. First my parents and I went to my grandparents' anglican church with my cousin Jennah-Jo and Aunt Cheri. The service is generally an hour and a half or so, but this year had a lot less stand-sit-kneel... possibly because there was a new minister as the previous one is now a bishop or something. 

    Once that service was finished, my parents and I went home for a quick pit-stop to grab a snack and gifts, before heading to our own church. I absolutely adore the candle-light service and go every year even if I end up by myself. My bestie's nana was there and gave me a pretty purple scarf, and a lot of the old teens came back as all are now in college or older. OME the one guy certainly grew up while he's been gone these past five years because he now has this hawt christian musician look going for him... and he's friggen TALL! I was wearing three or four inch heels and he still had to bend over a fair bit to give me a hug shocked  I had an awesome chat with his sister E home from college (who was a favourite of mine), M and N, and the others. Oh, how I miss them all!

    Afterwards we stopped at my grandparents to leave their christmas prezzies. Mum didn't want them sitting in the car during the first service, so we dropped them off while the Grands were at Aunt C's christmas party (usually really, really boring and would be more so because cousin T wasn't able to make it). I wanted to invite Algy over to watch a movie or something because he's all alone, with no family and few friends in town, but my mom said "I'm sure he has other friends". I thought that was horribly mean and not at all christmas/christian like. I ended up reading a book until I fell asleep...

     

    CHRISTMAS DAY:

    For once I wasn't the last person to wake up on Christmas morning! That honour goes to mum who stayed up late to put out prezzies, whereas dad and i put ours under the tree as soon as we finished wrapping them all --though this year I got dad to wrap most of mine rather than the other way around My cell phone alarm woke me up, the one I have set for work as a reminder to open the gallery *oops*, and dad was already making donuts like he does every year. 

    I dressed delightfully ridiculous in my fuzzy monster pajamas I got last year over leggings and a long-sleeve T with red and green socks. I thought I looked awesome, but mum laughed. We had a fair few phone calls, so opening of prezzies didn't commence until 11:30ish. I got some fabulous things like the latest Katie MacAllister book, the fourth in the City of Bones series by Cassandra Clare, "The Lucky One" movie with a rather gorgeously scruffy Zac Effron, blue fuzzy socks, new cookie-taking containers (my old one broke), a giant calendar (daddy gets me one every year), some mittens and gift card for the cinema (aunt Cheri), casserole dishes (aunt pam), and fifty bucks from my grands.

    I have to say that my absolute, all-time, uber favourite gift of all was an autographed cd of Drew Seeley, "The Resolution". I had been asking for his cd for a few years now, as I absolutely love his voice. Okay, so it helps that the guy is utterly adorable though now unfortunately engaged, and born Canadian. He moved to LA for his career, which I find lamentable, namely because it meant I'd never meet him --which WAS possible since he apparently occasionally hits the Danforth when in Toronto. 

    Then it was time to get ready to head off to my brother's house for Christmas 2 with my sister-in-law, Nana, Aunt Jody and Uncle Aaron, plus a dog. As per usual, we were running late --namely due to sleeping in and an untold amount of phone calls... Who the heck calls on Christmas morning? That's just rude (well, unless it is planned/expected). Personally, I wouldn't have bothered answering the phone myself, especially since two of the calls were from Nana and we were going to see her in a couple hours anyways *rolls eyes*

    I was actually more a part of the conversation this year, probably because my SiL's mother wasn't there. When she does come, my nana talks to her, my mom and aunt talk, and the boys talk, thus leaving me with no one to talk to because even when i try to make a comment it goes ignored. Dinner was pretty good, turkey and mashed potatoes and other yummy stuff, plus pie or Christmas pudding for dessert. I had fun playing with the puppy, looking at photos from my bro's latest camping trip --lotsa sunsets and scenery-- plus secretly texting with friends and cousins.

    Funnily enough, the best prezzies I got were from my bro and SiL: Epicure chocolate pudding mix (weird but addictive), a huge flower-themed calendar, a pack of pretty purple and pink inked pens, fuzzy socks, chocolate bars, as well as a chapters gift card for a birthday prezzie. My aunt and uncle gave me an address book (pretty but not useful), a tea sampler box and a tea-helper (I don't drink tea), and a big christmas mug that may or may not become a plant holder. My nana gave me a cheesy christmas movie that sounds boring and was going for a buck at G&T, a pair of earrings "in your birthstone" which was the wrong month's gem, a wallet-sized photo of her with my name spelled wrong on the back, a recipe book that was years old and from the cupboard she was cleaning out (it was ripped, torn, and cracked), plus a measuring cup set (also from her cupboards). 

    I know I shouldn't be selfish and it's the thought that counts, but it's just that it feels like very little thought was actually put into the gifts. My grandmother didn't even bother spelling my name right and was giving me things that she didn't want not caring that I wouldn't either. My aunt apparently still hasn't realized that I don't drink teas nor use scented products (last year's gift), and she gave my mother nearly the exact same things. My aunt used to give me soap from the health store she worked at, less than ten bucks but something I like and use because I am allergic to perfumes. They all know I like to crochet and read, so why not get me wool or book store gift cards or even make me something? Then I'll know they put even five minutes into the planning and were actually thinking of me. 

    I crocheted my Nana a christmassy table runner because hers was getting worn and dirty. I know from my aunt's reaction that I should make her something similar next year, albeit a different pattern and maybe different colours as well. I gave my aunt scented soaps and lotions because she's always using them, never waiting even until she's finished opening all her gifts before testing them out (much to my dismay). My uncle loves LPs so I painted him a record on a turntable, and he even smiled when he saw it, saying he loved it! (An amazing occurrence because he doesn't smile often). If I can put all that time and effort into gifts with my crazy schedule, I cannot understand why others don't. It tends to cheapen the holiday, the randomly buying of things because you feel obligated to get others gifts rather than wanting to do something for someone you care about.

    BOXING DAY:

    I was up most of the night reading because I was seriously wired from way too much chocolate and other sugary goodness, thus meaning I slept in until noon. Grabbing a couple home-made donuts for brunch I finished reading my book thus making it late afternoon. I was just getting out of the shower when I was told a friend from the play had stopped by. He was leaving town earlier than expected --stoopid brother/roommate wanted to return to Pborough-- and thus wasn't coming to the christmas party tonight, so he wanted to give me my birthday/christmas gift. I had put together a cd of christmas songs, including the radio show I love and told him about, while he gave me a bathrobe and slipper set! I knew how much he loved his robe and slippers, thinking everyone needs to have them but that I don't have 'em... so sweet! He got the sizing wrong, but it was still sweet of him. 

    After dinner, Buttercup and I went to the Ugly Sweater Party at Sunnie's parents' place. I dragged him along because I had a feeling I wasn't going to know anyone, and I was right. At least at first, for as the evening progressed some people I had a vague acquaintance with appeared. Until that time, I ended up chatting with a couple who I think may not have known anyone else either. He's in the Navy and she is in PR i believe she said... she likened it to Mad Men, but considering I have no idea what that is I had to make a guess by the things she said. It was somewhat amusing when they thought Buttercup and I were a serious couple, as Navy-guy (still no idea what his name is) asked if we would ever move out west where Buttercup's family lives or stay in the area. We both said, "we're just friends", and got a somewhat odd look. Can I help it that all my friends and i tend to be affectionate? We all hug, we lean on each other, whatever *shrug* We were standing near the door to the porch so I was cold and my feet hurt, leaning was a necessity. 

    Buttercup had to work the night shift, so I drove him home around 10pm before going back to the party. I almost didn't but Greg, Sunnie's bf, had broken out Apples to Apples and seven of us were playing. I asked Sunnie to fill in for me while I was gone, and decided to come back to finish the game. It wasn't long after my return that it was time for the Sweater Walk/Dance-Off. The prizes are for Worst Christmas Sweater, Worst Non-Christmas Sweater, Most Creative Sweater, and People's Choice (voted via ballot). Considering I just wore a hand-made sweater of my dad's I didn't get any prizes, and a good thing too as they are pretty hideous. 

    I left shortly thereafter as it was midnight, and it turns out a storm was blowing in. I was stupid and didn't wear a coat, thus had to brush off the car wearing no more than a knit sweater over a tee-shirt, jeans, and knee-high heeled boots; no mittens, scarf, coat, nuthin'. Needless to say I was absolutely freezing! Plus the car's seat-motor-thingie refused to work thus forcing me to resort to dad's obus form, and a couple of cushions just to reach the friggen pedals. Add that to slippery streets and falling sleet... yeah, it's probably a miracle I made it home safely. 

    TODAY:

    Looking back on my christmas holiday, I say it didn't turn out too badly. Yeah, I could have done more awesome things like attend a ballet (someday), get a kiss under the mistletoe (which btw, buttercup and I were posed under one for a photo-op with no result other than a pic being taken), attend more parties, got better gifts, what have you. Yet on the other side of things, I got to see various family members and friends (though I still have one more christmas left to celebrate with my papa and donna, as well as one with Brandi), attended one party, gave and got some pretty awesome gifts, and there were no huge blow-ups with the parentals. All in all, I'd say it was a success.

    SUMR

  • Christmas Day

    May embers from the hearth warm your hands

    May gingerbread cookies fill your tummy

    May children's bright smiles kindle your heart

    May the everlasting joy of the holiday brighten your home

    Now and forever after

    SUMR

  • w0w

    Saw this on Facebook on my birthday and wanted to post it here for you to see, too. 

    Me: God, can I ask You a question?

    God: Sure

    Me: Promise You won't get mad

    God: I promise

    Me: Why did You let so much stuff happen to me today?

    God: What do u mean?

    Me: Well, I woke up late

    God: Yes

    Me: My car took forever to start

    God: Okay

    Me: at lunch they made my sandwich wrong & I had to wait

    God: Huummm

    Me: On the way home, my phone went DEAD, just as I picked up a call

    God: All right

    Me: And on top of it all off, when I got home ~I just want to soak my feet in my new foot massager & relax. BUT it wouldn't work!!! Nothing went right today! Why did You do that?

    God: Let me see, the death angel was at your bed this morning & I had to send one
    of My Angels to battle him for your life. I let you sleep through that

    Me (humbled): OH

    GOD: I didn't let your car start because there was a drunk driver on your route that would have hit you if you were on the road.

    Me: (ashamed)

    God: The first person who made your sandwich today was sick & I didn't want you to catch what they have, I knew you couldn't afford to miss work.

    Me (embarrassed):Okay

    God: Your phone went dead bcuz the person that was calling was going to give false witness about what you said on that call, I didn't even let you talk to them so you would be covered.

    Me (softly): I see God

    God: Oh and that foot massager, it had a shortage that was going to throw out all of the power in your house tonight. I didn't think you wanted to be in the dark.

    Me: I'm Sorry God

    God: Don't be sorry, just learn to Trust Me.... in All things , the Good & the bad.

    Me: I will trust You.

    God: And don't doubt that My plan for your day is Always Better than your plan.

    Me: I won't God. And let me just tell you God, Thank You for Everything today.

    God: You're welcome child. It was just another day being your God and I Love looking after My Children...

    SUMR

  • It's the end of the world as we know it...

     

    ...and I feel fine. Probably because, oh I don't know, the world DIDN'T end? *L0L* Pity no one fell for it and gave me all their stuff as a birthday gift  

    So for my birthday I somehow managed to sleep through my alarm, thus not waking until noon. My mum was at work and my dad was christmas shopping, so I decided to check how many people wished my a happy birthday. First was the answering machine (zip), then twitter (also nada), a glance at my blog (3), and finally facebook (around 50). I am so loved

    After my shower both the parentals were at home and Da made me an egg mcmuffin... after much whining and whinging since he totally forgot that he said he would. Needless to say, at 3pm, I was frikken starving! When I finished my really late brunch, the parentals and I went out Christmas shopping before going out to dinner. I lurve Swiss Chalet and we had rather awesome service (chances of a good server are sometimes iffy). I swear some old guy there with (I presume) his wife kept staring at our table, he did look familiar but I couldn't place him so I'm going to go with the assumption that we know them rather than the guy being a creepy stalker. shocked

    After eating we stopped at a couple more stores to pick up gifts, and even swung around to Tim Hortons to visit my cousin who was just starting to work there. Just before pulling into the coffee shop we were at a red light and the most adorable guy was in the turning lane next to us. Figures it's when my parents are in the car or I may have smiled and waved Apparently my cos was not having a good time of it, and neither were some other newbies. I have no idea why they always train new employees at the same time, especially when training is pretty much being thrown into the deep end. 

    We then came home for cake (a nummy homemade lemon angel-food cake) and the opening of gifts. I got a card from my aunt with a McD's giftcard in it, a card from my grandparents with twenty bucks, and a birthday/christmas card from Marmie T with a cheque for $50! My Nana called and will be taking me out to eat next week (probably also Swiss Chalet as we do pretty much every year), My Papa and Donna bought me an adorable teddy bear from Chapters with a gift card -I named him Indigo for obvious reasons. My parents got me a movie, Snow White and the Huntsman, and a lunch bag that totally looks like a purse as it is purple quilted material but the inside is that silver insulated stuff. Because my lunch bag doesn't fit into my book bag, the parentals then took me to the mall to buy a new bag as part of my prezzie. The only one I liked wasn't on sale, so if I don't find something I like more I'll be pitching in some my birthday funds towards that. 

    Buttercup totally bailed on me after saying he had no plans this week and we'd totally do something on my birthday. *harumph* I text him yesterday asking if he wanted to hang out in the afternoon, but he said he might have to work that night and wouldn't be awake to hang out. Then today I asked if he wanted to get together later in the day and he said he couldn't because he had to catch up on some things. Seriously? "Catch up on things" vs celebrating my birthday with me? You suck! censored

    Thankfully, Sunnie invited me over to hang out with her and the BF. Sadly no one else was able to come, but it was still fun. We played Sequence and chatted and ate way too much junk food. I couldn't stay very late due to it being pouring rain so my dad dropped me off and would be picking me up again. It worked out though as Sunnie got called into to work and would be leaving around the same time. But she got me this lovely green charm necklace that looks practically like a shamrock, so it's totally awesome! 

    All in all, not a shabby birthday!

    SUMR

  • Best Day of the Year!!!

    Well, since the world is apparently going to end tomorrow, you can give all your things to me...

    CUZ IT'S MY BERFDAY!!!

    SUMR

  • Short and not Sweet

    Work is stressing me out, so I haven't felt like looking at a computer after work. Well, with the exception of my freelance editing though I did as much as I could of that at the studio during my lunch breaks... and the reason why I was doing it on my lunch break is because I wasn't actually getting one  as it seems no one can cover reception for a half-hour each day for me to have a break *grrr*.

    The reason why I am stressing out is because I was given two "request for proposals" to write within a two-and-a-half week period. I had never written one before, so the first RFP took me a fair bit of time --though a lot of that time was correcting the designer's messing about (she takes the word doc and formats it to InDesign so it has a nice layout, but often screws up the text somehow). The second one is aggravating because we're doing it in a partnership with another company and they did not give me any information that I need from them; you'd think since they asked for the partnership they would have preemptively provided the necessary facts, but not so. I asked my Rboss (different from previous boss-lady who is now on mat leave) for their contact info or for her to pass on the email I sent to her regarding what I still need, and asked to have it for this past Monday. Rboss didn't even send the thing until Tuesday (I hope she sent it by then!) and I still didn't have it when I left work this evening. 

    Now this probably doesn't sound too bad, cuz there's still time right? WRONG! I am not scheduled to work again until the 31st and the RFP is due in paper copy by January 2nd. And BTW, it's not a local address nor to a town that even has express courier services. So now I will have to go in on my freaking vacation to finish a friggen project that should have been already fracken-well done had everyone else flippin' cooperated! 

    Can someone please send a gorgeous, irish-accented, uniform-wearing, puppy-owning guy as a prezzie for me tomorrow? It would certainly brighten my day *hopeful face*

    SUMR

  • Are you kidding me?!

    I was hired to work three days a week, but have been working four to five days per week for the past month or so --essentially ever since I was moved to reception from formatting. At first I was asked nicely if I could please come in an extra day or two to work on a project until finished; now I'm just given so much work I have no choice BUT to come in every day in an attempt to get things done on time. I was eventually told that I should come in the extra days when work had to be done, but not to go over 40 hours per week... I sometimes struggle with that, and have hit up to 45 a couple times. 

    Today the owner came in and asked me why I was in today. He said there shouldn't be two receptionists and there isn't enough work for us both to be doing. I looked at him like he was nuts and started listing the things I had to do that day to explain why I was in, but he cut me off and said we'd talk about it later as a client came in. We never did talk about it, but he actually asked two or three other co-workers why I was working instead. It is like he doesn't comprehend how much I am doing, how much work I am given. 

    Before there was one girl coming in five days a week to do reception, but she quit to start her own company. She was focusing on the things she liked doing, and let much of what didn't interest her slide by with the least amount of effort she could put in it. After she left, the owner then asked if I'd take over for three days, and another girl was hired to do the other three days. Because there is now two of us working front desk, the owner seems to think everything can get done between us... Not so much.

    Cassie was told her focus is the Gallery, to get it up and running in a way that it will pay for itself --and hopefully make a profit. There had been no art shows, no lessons, no community gatherings, nothing to cause a buzz about the place and that has to change. My focus is to be social media, not only for our company but for other companies. I have to say, being a social media consultant is something a TEAM should be doing and not a single person as a side-line responsibility. Our own social media is such a mess that I'm still trying to organize it and create a kickin' strategy for it, but I haven't had much time to do it with everything else I'm given... stuff I'm not even sure is within my job description!

    It doesn't help that I am the ONLY person at the company who has the education and training for editorial and writing --everyone else there has design, formatting, sales, or art history backgrounds-- which essentially leaves anything with words in it for me to deal with. What doesn't help is that anything I have written and/or editing to perfection becomes a big ol' mess after one of the designer/formatters gets ahold of it. I don't know how she does it, but I have to make many corrections to work after she touches it that did not have any mistakes textually before it was put in her hands. 

    So because the owner seems a bit clueless, I've decided to start a list of all the responsibilities I have been given. I intend to show the owner this list and ask if there is anything I should or should not be doing. Technically, I am the part-time receptionist in a studio that houses three companies (publishing, marketing & branding, art gallery) and I earn $11 per hour for it. I am going to include my list here for you, so if you could let me know what you think about my duties --if there is something I should be doing that I don't, or if there is something that shouldn't be my responsibility-- I would appreciate it. 

    Front Desk

    -        Greet people entering the building

    -       Answer phone, screen and direct calls

    -       Answer emails or forward to appropriate person

    -       Schedule appointments/meetings

    -       Accept and sort deliveries

    -       Care for plants

    -       Dust and sweep

     

    Publishing Company

    -       Scoping from physical book to ipad app (as needed)

    -       Proofreading (as needed)

     

    Marketing & Branding Company

    -       Attend meetings (weekly & as requested)

    -       Assist walk-in clients, or directing to appropriate persons

    -       Call clients to ensure received emailed proofs and confirm orders

    -       Set up Google Places (as needed)

    -       Content Editing, Line Editing, Copyediting (daily)

    -       Proofreading (daily)

    -       Copywriting, Proposal Writing (daily)

    -       Social Media consultant (as needed)

    -       Social Media for our company (daily) -> twitter and facebook

     

    Gallery

    -       Correspond with artists (as needed)

    -       Fill and file forms (as needed)

    -       Update console (as needed)

    -       Salesperson (as needed)

    -       Assist Cassie (as needed)

    -       Social Media for our company (daily) -> twitter, facebook, blog, newsletter

     

    Other

    -       Research (as requested)

    -       Data entry (as requested)

    -       Attend webinars (as requested)

    -       Brainstorm ways to gain more business, how to best optimize space, how to involve community in company, etc.  (as requested)

     

    SUMR

     

     

  • Xanga Challenge Survey Thingamajig

    I wasn't tagged, but I'm doing it anyways... 

    Your Xanga Name and Meaning
    My xanga name is the nickname I was given in grade school. Long story short, I once said "I want to be a summer daisy!" and, though I meant the flower, my friends started calling me that. 

    How long you've been here?
    I've been a Xangan since my first year of university, as my friends thought it would be a great way to keep up to date on each other's lives. That was in 2002.

    Do you have more than one account?
    Yes, I have another for poetry (all horrible, but it was a phase) and another for a play I've been writing off and on. 

    How many times have you changed your name?
    Never. I didn't know you could, but I wouldn't want to. .

    Name and tag 10 people that keep you here and why, not just bloggers that you like to read/etc, but people who really and truly MEAN something to you (no, it doesn't have to be limited to 10, but let's start there). Tell us what they've done for you, how they've inspired you, how they've been a friend/cheered you up, say something nice about them.

    • @Garistotle - He was one of my first followers as we both came on to the site around the same time. If G wasn't so awesome, I may not have stuck with this site. He also introduced me to:
    • @PersianKitty - She came online due to her now-husband. She would be fab-fun to hang out with, as we have definitely bonded over crochet and books
    • @Karoline1982 - another part of this little group, Karo is now one of my closest friends. When I moved to a town near her, she and I were always doing stuff together. Thanks for being a fabulous friend! 
    • @the_fur_pimp - he's hardly ever on anymore, but who couldn't love Court? He has renewed my love of nature, and he's just amusing as all get out. If I could adopt him to be my brother, I so totally would. 
    • @happyworld_ofharibo  - I am so glad she's coming back, because she's frigging awesome. She's from the UK, and you can't get much more fab than that. 
    • @skylar_rose - She is a fantastic writer, and I am in awe of anyone who can write. This girl is incredibly friendly and witty, plus her baby is utterly adorable.  
    • @MrAngelicGuy - He has some of the most amazing poetry I have every read. He is rarely on nowadays, which I think is a tragedy. 
    • @SayntCinn - Another of my good friends, but one I convinced to come onto Xanga rather than one I met via online. I wouldn't have survived work if it wasn't for this girl. And if I didn't survive work, then I wouldn't have paid off my school loan, and if I didn't pay that off, then I wouldn't have been able to save to go back to school, and... you get the picture. 
    • @SeptemberChild - The reason I came onto Xanga, she was my best friend at my second high school. She got me through that year, and this is how we stayed in touch after graduation. She stopped xanga the year i graduated uni, which might explain how we lost touch. 
    • @MyxlDove - He is by far a favourite. I've never met him in person, but he and his family are wonderful, and give me faith that there is such a thing as "family". 

    If you ever leave, will you say goodbye first? 
    I don't plan to leave, though I sometimes take long unplanned breaks. If I do decide to stop writing, I would say goodbye. 

    Do you have any xanga crushes?
    Yep, I sure did. Then he got engaged and quit Xanga... obviously not the boy for me  

    Are there people on xanga that you actively avoid?
    No, I'm not popular enough to have haters, so there is no need to avoid anyone. in fact, I need more friends. 

    Do you troll-(if yes) Are you good at it?
    I don't think I troll. I never really bothered to find out what that meant exactly... other than an ugly old ogre that makes you pay a fee to go over a bridge.  

    Has the community been there for you in times of trouble/pain?
    Yes, from moving away from home, unfathomable homework, crazy parents, boy-troubles... I think my Xangan friends know more about me than anyone else in the world. 

    Post to your own site, tag @LKJSlain and myself somewhere! I wanna see results!

      SUMR
  • Sumr's Sumthings

    I have started a facebook page for the things I crochet with the intent to start selling my crafts. I plan to begin locally, but eventually will consider shipping it to other places if it is worth it. Do you think anyone would want to buy my stuff? I've only ever given it away as gifts...

    If you want to, you can "like" it here: https://www.facebook.com/SumrsSumthings

    SUMR

  • this and that

    I'm sure you've all been waiting to hear about how my dad is doing. That is, if I mentioned it before, and I don't recall whether I actually did write about it or not... Hmmmm. So I shall start from the beginning: About three months ago my dad was having some serious pain and had to take time off work. It turned out to be an infection of some kind, but even after two rounds of meds the pain didn't go away though the infection did. For a month and a half he was put through a bunch of tests, and it was suspected he had cancer. This was a big scare because, hello it's cancer! But also because it does seem to happen a lot in our family, some survive it and others didn't. 

    A lot of this was occurring during the play last month, which thankfully kept me fairly distracted from what was going on with my dad. I only had one freak out during the run of the show, but I managed to deal before curtain-call and was able to go onstage. With every test they did on him that month the chances of his having cancer lowered, because they kept finding other things wrong with him. In fact, they found FIVE. One they did the surgery immediately because they were already there from doing the test, but another surgery was scheduled just this week to deal with two more. The remaining two issues didn't require surgery thankfully. 

    Both mum and I had to work the day of dad's surgery, she couldn't get it off as she thought and I didn't ask because I already had to take a day off the previous time to take him to surgery. It was arranged that my Nana would take him, but she just dropped him off instead of staying there. If that was the intent either mum and I could have done that! So there is angry issue number one. Angry issue number two is that she did not keep in contact with mum or myself to let us know what was going on -when dad was called in, when he finished, nothing. So basically both mum and I were nervous wrecks most of the day waiting to hear something. Angry issue number three is the fact while taking dad to the pharmacy to pick up his meds, she left him in the car alone. He is NOT supposed to be by himself for 24-48 hours, and she stayed inside the mall for an hour and had tea while waiting. WHAT THE FRIG?!?!

    Anyways, my dad came through the surgery all right. He is actually having more trouble with the catheter he has to wear for a week, than the surgery itself. It's kind of gross to see him lugging the bag around, but he's alive. That is the important thing. I think he will be taking the rest of the month, and possibly the rest of the year off, in order to finish recuperating. Dad says we have enough money saved to get by that long, but that may partially be due to the fact that he can't go anywhere in order to spend money we don't have as he quite often does. I'm having to pitch in a bit more than I was previously, thus affecting my budget and savings, but c'est la vie. 

    Work is going well. Half the time I get called in for an extra day or two, or even three the one day! I had to work for six days -love the money, hated the lack of weekend. I get along great with the new gallery administrator, Cassie. She and I even went to the Festival of Trees together yesterday. I got some great photographs, and I'll have to put them up soon! She and I plan to start a writing group event at the gallery next month for people to get together and write letters or draw pictures to send to soldiers over seas. She did that once before with her church and thought it was a great idea to do again. 

    I'm still going to bible study, and the ladies have decided to start a monthly knit/crochet get-togther. Mum was invited too, but I think she is going to bail because she made other plans even though she already indicated she wanted to come when I told her on Monday. I'm not sure I want to go by myself since all the ladies are my mum's age. I'm not overly comfortable with the fact I know they will want me to talk, and I don't know that I have anything else in common with them. Yet because of this idea, I came up with the thought that Gwen, Miss Prism, and I should do the same thing every month so we all stay in touch now that the play is done, also inviting our friend's mum "Marmie" and my coworker Cassie and whomever else wants to come. 

    Well, I have some baking to do in case I do go to today's crochet-a-long! 

    SUMR